A man who disappointed his girlfriend by his poor performance during their first time s*x has cried out for help as he thinks he has ruined everything.
A man has been left totally ashamed of himself after his first time s*x with the girlfriend turned out to be a total disaster, as he could not last long. He now feels his girl may feel less of him because of the incident.
My ex and I dated for about 3 months, but we never had s*x. She wanted to, but I turned her down because I wanted it to be right with her. We’re both adults (mid-20s), so we’re not kids in high school or anything. Anyways, she dumped me about a month ago and even though it killed me inside, I hid it fairly well. We started messing around again this past weekend. We both missed each other like crazy.
Tonight, we had s*x for the first time together. It just kind of happened. I regretted not having s*x with her while dating so I took the first chance I got. I had condoms with me, and that kind of threw her off a bit. Before I even got the condoms out, she was trying to go without one. Well, I came within a couple minutes, fooled around with her, and after awhile we started again. She tried to convince me I had a condom on and stuck me in her. I don’t understand.
Anyways, we had s*x for awhile but I couldn’t finish. She says she needs to go to sleep and that her head is pounding (doubt it, she took ibuprofen beforehand).
Honestly, it was awkward, and it was pretty bad. My ego is bruised, because I wanted to give her great s*x. She just wasn’t into it.
We outside to smoke and I was kind of an ass-hole. She seemed upset and said “why did you have condoms with you?” She wanted me to leave, so I did.
I really have no idea what’s going on. I’m confused about my feelings now, and I’m sure she is too. I’d hate to think that bad s*x would ruin everything between us. It’s important to mention that her and I were INCREDIBLY passionate while we were together. How do I handle this? What do I do?